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One last thing: while people are delighted to be included (and seemto enjoy excluding others), the benefits they feel are dwarfed by theanger and disappointment of those excluded.

最后一件事：当人们对自己被接纳感到高兴（且看上去对把别人排除在外感到很愉悦）的时候，他们所感受到的好处会被局外人的不满和失望矮化。