Hofer

"So much changed just a few years ago," Hofer said.

“和几年前相比真的改变了很多，”霍弗认为。

Hofer said, "There are good and bad points on this."

霍弗认为：“就这个问题而言，有好的也有不好的一面。”

Hofer came in from the anteroom carrying several files and a couple of rolled-up maps under his arm.

霍弗抱着几摞案卷，挟着两卷地图从接待室走了进来。

Hofer found the ones who talk the most with their parents are the least autonomous, and are the least likely to regulate their own behavior.

霍弗发现，那些和父母聊得最多的孩子，自助能力最差，也最不能约束自己的行为。

Hofer said, "By contrast, the parents who are still regulating their kids, still call to go remind them, ´I have your syllabus, and I can see that you have a test this week — have you studied for it?"

霍弗说：“而那些现在还在管教孩子的父母，还在提醒孩子‘我看你的课程表了，你这周有考试——复习了吗？”’